When dating a younger girl, you need to know how to handle the situation the right way. This article will show you how to date younger women and it will explain why older men are often seen as more attractive to women.
There’s a long-held assumption that as a man gets older, his looks, virility, and physical appearance all take a turn for the worse. The belief that age erodes attraction is one of the most prevalent myths out there.
Research, however, indicates that as a man gets older he often becomes more attractive. And where a woman is considered to be in her physical prime in her twenties, a man is considered most attractive between age 25 and 40.
Unlike women who are judged mostly on their physical appearance, a man’s attractiveness is based on a combination of skill, appearance, confidence, status, and experience.
Women Find Older Men More Attractive
Further research into age and attraction shows that women, on average, find older men more attractive than younger men. These findings hold true even if a woman is financially independent and self-sufficient, suggesting that even when a woman has the freedom to choose her romantic partner without financial considerations, she will still choose to be with an older man who is more likely to be fun and possess greater experience and wisdom.
And while most men don’t hit their prime until they’re in their thirties or forties, a lot of men are already out of shape and physically unattractive by this age. This is usually a result of too much alcohol, smoking, and junk food consumption.
As a general rule, the more overweight and out of shape a man is the more difficult it will be for him to attract and date beautiful women—unless the man has exceedingly high levels of status and wealth to compensate for his physical shortcomings.
A Man Can be Attractive His Entire Life
In contrast, men who workout on a regular basis and eat healthy food can stay in excellent shape well into their forties, fifties, and sixties. If you look after yourself and remain young at heart, don’t be surprised if you’re still dating young and attractive women well into middle-age. It’s certainly not uncommon for high-status men in their fifties and sixties to date young, beautiful women in their early twenties.
A man is only limited by his beliefs and his imagination. Getting older is not something to be feared but something to be embraced.
Dating a Younger Girl…
Women who date older men are often more feminine than women who date men of a similar age. In fact, the greater the age difference the more feminine a woman is likely to be. Feminine women often seek out older men as partners because this relationship dynamic feels more natural to their feminine soul. If you want to keep a younger woman attracted to you, you must exude masculine traits like leadership, confidence, and decisiveness.
Where younger men are known for their indecisiveness, uncertainty, and false confidence, an older man must stand out with his years of experience, strength, and confidence.
If a woman senses uncertainty and weakness, then she’ll pull away from you and look for a man who’s stronger and more confident. The same applies if you try to seek reassurance from a woman about whether or not she loves you and is attracted to you.
It’s not uncommon for confident, attractive men to become weak and insecure the moment they start dating a young woman. These same men worry that they look too old, they worry that their girlfriend will leave them for a younger (more handsome) man, and they worry that their relationship is too good to be true and it’s only a matter of time before their partner realizes she’s dating an “old man.”
Don’t Make Age an Issue
The moment you start doubting yourself is the moment you open up Pandora’s Box and bring unnecessary problems into your relationship. Remember, thoughts are energy and they hold real-world consequences. Age isn’t a problem unless you make it a problem. Dating a younger girl should never be about age. Men who successfully date younger women never focus on age. Instead, they keep the relationship light, fun, and relaxed, and they never try to lock a woman into commitment before she’s ready.
When dating a younger girl, you mustn’t let a small thing like age difference get in the way.