In order to develop an abundance mindset you have to actually create abundance in your life. It has to be real. It has to be tangible.
The same goes for things like confidence. It’s impossible to think our way into true confidence, we actually have to start taking small actions in our life that will make us feel more confident on a daily basis.
For example, going to the gym, doing martial arts, mastering a hobby, dating more women, improving our education or business prospects are all things that will collectively raise your confidence as a man. Not just one thing, but many small actions taken over a period of time. This is called self actualization in psychology.
You will also start to see yourself differently too as your grow and develop. The more you respect yourself and see yourself as an impressive person, the more other people, women included, will respect you and value you too.
The great thing about developing an abundance mindset is that it creates more and more abundance. Once you start to see women as abundant and see the possibilities for relationships are everywhere, your confidence will grow exponentially. And when you have other options with women, then you will never fall into the trap of thinking that one special girl is the “one.”
Men often give women value based on nothing but the woman’s looks and some perceived idea of how she will be in the future. Most women aren’t actually that impressive if you take away their looks.
It’s a harsh truth of life. It’s also a truth that women understand this fact and are aware that their value is based on nothing more than their looks. That is why they are so turned off by men who put them on a pedestal for no reason.
To achieve a true abundance mindset I recommend the following steps:
– Get yourself into great physical shape (this helps to attract more women and convert more dating prospects).
– Have goals or projects in your life that you are working on. This will make women see you as a more valuable man.
– Start approaching and talking to more women in daily life. Forget night clubs and bar pickup. Instead focus on day to day interactions which have a higher chance of conversion.
– Move to a city. It’s a simple fact. More women live in cities. If you don’t already live in a city then your options for dating and abundance are limited.
These are some great ways to start creating options in your life and cultivate an abundance mindset.
Of course a crucial rule applies here, that is: in order to have great abundance and options in life, you have take risks and embrace opportunity.