Researchers at University College London (UCL) found that deep voices command more respect and are more memorable than high pitched voices. Here’s how you can create an attractive voice that women find sexy.
The UCL researchers concluded that women find deep voices attractive because deep voices appear to signal that a man possesses high levels of testosterone.
The study also noted that deep voices, when tempered with a “breathy” quality, were rated as the most attractive because these voices signal lower levels of hostility and aggression.
How to Develop an Attractive Voice
An excellent way to develop a more commanding and authoritative voice is to take slow, deep breaths and speak from your diaphragm as opposed to speaking from your throat. Most men tend to speak from the throat or directly from the mouth without utilizing the full power of their diaphragm. When you’re feeling tense or nervous, your muscles will automatically tighten, and your breathing will become fast and shallow. This results in a high-pitched speaking voice.
If you find yourself in a stressful or uncomfortable situation where you need to communicate, it’s important to make a conscious effort to slow your breathing and relax your muscles, especially around the shoulders.
Speaking directly from the diaphragm helps to ensure your voice comes out in its full, natural tone—a tone that women find most seductive.